Anonymous said: Any advice for okcupid?? Did you meet yer man on there?
Take OkCupid with a grain of salt. When I was on OkC in NYC, most people were on there for a quick hook up. In the suburbs it’s different, but people are still pervy and weird. Don’t get offended if a person sends you a vulgar message and remember what you put up there can be read a million different ways depending on what that person wants to hear.
I did not meet Cam on OkCupid. I actually met him through Tumblr, I guess. I was following his bff Raf who asked if I did the blind date thing and I said sure I’m a lonely single woman in the suburbs and he hooked me up with Cam’s tumblr and he put an ask in my box (innuendo?) and the rest is history.